Saturday 30 June 2007

CHIP ON THE SHOULDER

Hey everyone, been MIA because that last post got me kinda weak, so I spaced out for a bit, but I’m back. Was watching pride and prejudice today and all I could think bout was how the hell do they have sex being that they are all proper and shit, she’ll probably go, (using the Victorian British accent) oh Mr. Darcy, do give it to me a tad bit harder than you were just now, lawl, okay that was a random thought.
Back to the topic, do you guys notice how a lot of people in naij have a chip on their shoulder, I went out today and I had to pop into some office, since I was in a hurry, I didn’t park too well but I made sure not to block anyone in. When I got out and was about to get into my car, I heard a guy screaming at me (apparently he was the security man) why did you park like this ehn, if our oga sees this one now, you people sef, the guy was screaming ready to rain insults on my head. I then calmly replied, I’m sorry, I didn’t realize it was wrong to park this way, the guy was so obviously taken aback, it was laughable, he had geared up for a shouting match.
I think it’s just a way for some people to feel powerful, a lot of people do it. You go to an office and the receptionist is especially rude to you, you go in a shop and you’re looking around and the shop girls are like eyeing you cause they think you’re wasting their time, you’re talking to some guy and some girl comes up to him without acknowledging you the list goes on and on. They say Nigerians are one of the happiest people in the world, but most of them are rude and obnoxious for the most part. I think its cause most people are frustrated and they just keep it all inside, u know how everyone wants to seem perfect, like I know this woman who told my mum her husband hasn’t touched her in two years, now that has got to be highly frustrating. People should just go get therapy, what you think.
Random rant- I saw dream girls for the first time today (whateva, I know everyone else in the world has seen it), every time I have to say no, I sing no, no, no, no way, I’m trying to feel like Jennifer Hudson.
Who saw the BET awards, I think ciara has gmynorexia, she’s so thin, muscular and she’s got no boobs, It was not a pretty sight to me. Ciao y’all.

11 comments:

Anu boy said...

uhmm... chip on the...

well... its all good..

chidi said...

nice post....& about the post you had on rape, its good to know that you had someone who understood & cared for you at that point. Good to know you are healing too

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Admin UD said...

You just said it, frustration adn survival strategy, trying to put the other person in position, exuding all these negative vibes..lol!

Anonymous said...

hope u enjoyed dreamgirls sa

LonelierThanAkon said...

Chip on shoulder.

Thats old gist.

In lag you'll meet all sorts, ppl with wood chips, plantain chips, pringles, casino chips and all brand of issues.

Ignore them jo.

I hvnt seen dreamgirls. duno y.

NIce post

psykotikdiva said...

@ anu, what????
@chidi, thanks and i was lucky to have him, i may have gone mad if i didnt.
@ugodaniels, ure getting me
@rodrigo, HUH???????
@pinksatin, yea i did, i dont know why everyone says beyonce cant act, she was aite to me.
@LonelierThanAkon, thanks,im in lag,i know, you should see dream girls, its really good.

TDVA said...

i quote ur last post:

'Next post will be cheerful, scout's honour'.

dont mind me jo, nice post. plus i havnet seen dreamgirls either *blush blush*!!!

psykotikdiva said...

@teediva, are you trying to say something,lol, it was cheerful, kind of.

Unknown said...

lol at pride and prejudice. My take on Victorian ppl is that they were a bunch of hypocrites.

About chips: Everyone has them. Some just more than others.

Dreamgirls: Seen it. To me it was just alright!!

sugarlomps said...

1st timer here
well all nigerians do have that chip........
and well the rape incident well its fine now n to every rapist well u neva can tell who it will be next maybe ur wife sister daughter